Dating tips
1. Groom yourself
I hate to say this, but most guys don't get even the basics!
Women don't like guys with body odour, bad breath and nose hair.
Grooming is important to women. Be clean and smell good.
This will help your self confidence too.
2. Learn to dress well
You don't have to be good-looking, you just have to LOOK GOOD.
It's easier than you think,
and doesn't cost much if you plan a bit.
A fashionable shirt, a nice pair of jeans, and
cool shoes is a great way to begin.
This has a BIG
impact on your first impression and will make
your approach easier.
3. Smile
This is commonsense, but when guys
get nervous this is one of
the first things
they forget. People like people who smile.
4. Sloooooow down
It's hard enough when
there is no pressure, but when guys get
nervous
they move like they have ants in
their pants.
Quick, jerky movements are not attractive. It telegraphs nervousness.
Think of how James Bond moves, or Brad Pitt, or think of a
snail,
keep reminding yourself to sloooooow doooowwwnn.
5. Hold eye contact
A key sign of confidence is to NOT
look away when a woman
looks at you.
Let HER be the first to look away. Note: there is a huge difference between
holding eye
contact and STARING.
If you
see a woman look at you...
RELAX, SMILE, and
SLOW DOWN (see how all this works together)
6.
Be playful
Most guys are boring, stiff, and
logical.
If you are playful, you have an INSTANT
advantage over other men.
Women like a man who
is playful.
Teasing a woman the right way is one of the easiest and most effective
ways for men to be playful, and it's a powerful attraction trigger.
7. Touch people
Touch people when you interact with them.
It communicates you are a social guy, you
are comfortable
with them and are inviting them into your world.
Make a habit of touching everyone you meet, like you would
touch
friends in your inner circle. Touch early, touch often.
8. Talk to everyone
A common mistake guys make is to talk ONLY to the cute girl
they are
hitting on. Then
they wonder why she was not so responsive.
Talk to her friends. Talk to people around, both men AND women.
9. Learn to tell stories
Every man has some cool
stories to tell. Maybe you don't think your
stories are good because they're
nothing new for you. But people always
find personal anecdotes interesting.
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