Day 1: Art of attraction
Art of attraction
Day 2: Art of making love
Art of making love

Real Man Workshop

2-day workshop teaches the art of attracting & making love. Click Day 1 or Day 2 to find out what you will learn.

Day 1: Art of attraction

Day 1: Art of attraction

How to approach and talk to a woman and take things forward, while avoiding the mistakes most guys make.

You'll learn...

  • Why men fear approaching women, and how to break through this fear
  • How to approach without making her uncomfortable
  • Why you shouldn't compliment a woman you've just met
  • How to show that you're confident even if you're not
  • How to smoothly ask for her phone number
  • What to say during the phone conversation and why you should be the first to hang up
  • Do's & don'ts for the first date
  • Conversation tips that ensure you will never run out of things to talk about
  • How to get physical in way that makes her want more
  • Plus... the many other things a man must know to take an interaction from eye contact to sex without making a woman uncomfortable.
Day 2: Art of making love

Day 2: Art of making love

Step by step training on sexually satisfying a woman. From undressing her to giving her an orgasm.

You'll learn...

  • The art of undressing a woman (yes, it's an art)
  • Erotic ways to touch any part of her body
  • How to fondle her breasts the way she prefers
  • 3 simple phrases to use during lovemaking that make it easier for her to get aroused
  • How to avoid the common kissing mistakes men make • A sure way to tell when a woman is ready to be touched between her legs
  • The common mistakes men make while giving a woman oral sex
  • The 6 most erotic sex positions
  • Thrusting tips that shoot up her pleasure during intercourse
  • 6 things to remember while making love to a virgin
  • How to make her comfortable to tell you what she likes in bed
  • and tricks to maximize her pleasure and help her orgasm
Approach Practice

Includes approaching practice at the workshop

You'll learn the right way to approach a woman by practicing on our pretty workshop assistants. You'll learn to approach while a woman is walking, while she is seated (example: at a coffee shop) and while she's shopping. While you practice, the coach will correct your technique. You will also get frank feedback from the women about your approaches.

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Frequently asked questions

In what cities are the workshop held?

Our workshops are usually held in the cities of Mumbai, Bangalore, New Delhi, Hyderabad and Pune.

How can I be sure my money is safe?

Good question. You should always be cautious and do your research diligently before making your payment for any product on the internet.

The Real Man Academy is India's first attraction workshop and is brought to you by Shiva, the well-known dating and sexuality expert.

Our work has been featured in leading Indian newspapers and magazines including the Times of India, Mumbai Mirror, Times Crest, DNA, Outlook, Eenadu and Yuva.

We are continuously making large investments in technology, on the web and offline. Our focus is not short-term profits, but the creation of a pan-India movement of Real Men in every Indian city, big and small.

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You also have the option of paying by check, cash or net banking.

What is your refund policy?

Here's our refund policy

  • If we exceed capacity and cannot accommodate you, or if we have to cancel or reschedule the workshop due to unavoidable circumstances, then 100% of your money will be refunded back to you within a week.
  • After you pay the advance and your seat is confirmed, if you cancel or don't attend the workshop, we CANNOT refund your fee due to the costs incurred in making arrangements and in blocking your seat.
Can I pay the registration fee at the venue?

We regret that's not possible. Since arrangements are made depending on the number of attendees, we have to accept fees in advance.

Can I pay by cash or cheque?

Yes you can pay by bank deposit (cash, cheque or net banking) or by credit card.

Why don't you mention the workshop venue for each city on your web site?

For the privacy of attendees, we reveal the venue ONLY to confirmed registrants 2 weeks prior to the event in their city. If you have a question about an event you are attending, please write to support[at]

Date, venue, time, price?
  • Dates :
    • Bangalore : October 25 & 26
    • New Delhi : November 08 & 09
    • Mumbai : November 22 & 23
  • Venue :Centrally located conference hall (details provided to registrants)
  • Time : 10 am to 7 pm
  • Fee : Rs. 26,200 Includes lunch, tea/coffee, snacks, course material
Why is the early bird fee so low?

If we charge an admission fee of Rs.5 lakhs per participant, people will still attend (because this information is invaluable) but only the wealthy will be able to afford it. We want to make it affordable to all. That's why we have priced it at Rs.26,200. But we want to make it even more affordable to those who want it eagerly. That's why we have provided the early bird fee for people to reserve their seat early and save.

Privacy is important : At the workshop nobody will know the difference between the early bird attendees and the regular attendees. All attendees get the exact same education.

I have a question that is not answered here

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How will learning to approach women help a man?

This is the most important skill any man must learn if he wishes to reach his dating potential and have choice of women in his life. Unless you approach a woman, you will never get to know her, date her or have sex with her. But this is not just about women. The anxiety you feel when you approach a woman is part of a larger issue called SOCIAL anxiety.

Every one of us has some level of social anxiety, but the highest form of it manifests when you approach women.

By learning to approach women, you tackle the most intense form of social anxiety.

To approach and connect with women successfully, you have to bring out your own best personality. You have to make changes to yourself. You have to become more confident, you have to develop the ability to take quick decisions, you need confident body language and a relaxed voice tone.

Making these changes will help you with more than just women. They wukk make you more confident and outgoing at social gatherings. Your relationships with your friends and families will improve. You will build stronger bonds with colleagues at work. You will evolve into a attractive man who approaches life with a bold new perspective. Earlier you might be insecure and self-conscious, but once you get this skill handled, you will radiate as you walk down the street.

What if the woman I approach is married or not single?

That is one of the reasons why you need the skills of approaching. If she happens to be married or not available or not interested, you can disengage and walk away pleasantly, without any drama, without feeling rejected. But unless you approach her, you will NEVER KNOW.

What if I already have a girlfriend or a wife?

We don't encourage you to cheat on your girlfriend or wife. Affairs are NOT cool.

But flirting is a cool skill to have. :)

Having the skill to approach women and talk to them, helps you preserve your fun and flirty persona.

It helps you radiate a flirtatious charm that your partner will love. In fact, the reason many relationships lack that zing is because the man does not possess the skill of flirting.

Will there be women at the workshop?

We will have cute female hostesses at the workshop on whom you will practice approaching and talking. You will get frank feedback (from Shiva and from the hostesses) to correct your approaching technique. Our hostesses are experts at rejecting guys at social places. They know what techniques work on girls and what don't. They'll give you brutally honest feedback to help you become more attractive.

Why learn sex techniques, aren't we born with the knowledge?

We are born with the urge to have sex, not the art of making love.

What kind of people attend your workshops?

All kinds of men - businessmen, students, artists, builders, doctors, architects, CEOs, sportsmen, engineers, even retired senior citizens. They come from various cultural and professional backgrounds, and in a variety of sizes and shapes - tall, short, bald, hairy. And they come with just one single purpose - to know more about sex, specifically, to know how they can better please the women in their lives. Here are some of the reasons they gave for attending the workshop:

  • An engineer from Pune: "I know there are tricks to make sex more fun for my wife and me, and I want to learn as many of them as I can."
  • A real estate agent from Mumbai : "I have a loving wife who never complains, no matter how selfish I am in bed. I have been wanting to learn what pleases women, and I want to do those things for my wife."
  • A businessman from Hyderabad : "In my culture women are not comfortable describing what they want their men to do during sex. So if there is some indirect way to get this information, I would love to have it."
  • A textile dealer from Thane : "I am getting married next month, I don't want to be ignorant on my wedding night. I want to know all the right things to do and then go in there and do it!"
  • A consultant from Kolkata : "As a man it's easy for me to get my release during sex, but if there is some way for me to increase my wife's satisfaction, I would be grateful for the info."
Do we need sex coaching in the land of the Kama Sutra?

Vatsyayan wrote in the Kama Sutra that Kama (the art of sensual love-making) was a subject which required to be learned, and could not be left unstudied. He further affirmed that both men and women need to learn this.

There was a time in ancient India, when along with the great treatises of Yoga, Ayurveda and Vedanta, the Kama Sutra was much read and discussed.

Was it the orthodoxy of the mughals that restrained free discussion about love-making? Was it the Brahmanical influence with its strong elements of asceticism that created constraints and rigidities? We do not know for sure, but somewhere along the way we stopped learning how to be great lovers.

What information will you provide at the workshop?

Here's an overview of what you will learn on Day 2 :

  • Sexual and reproductive anatomy overview

    In male :penis, testicles, prostate and sperm.

    In female : clitoris, vaginal lips, vagina, perineum, cervix, uterus, ovaries and fallopian tubes.

  • Close-up view of female genitalia

    You will see close-up views of a woman's vulva: the inner and outer lips, the clitoris, the vaginal opening, the mons pubis and the perineum. Demonstrated up close, in a frank manner using training aids.

  • Differences between men and women:

    Find out how men and women approach and experience sex differently. Example : Men will usually decide based on a woman's looks, women usually decide based on how she's been treated....MORE EXAMPLES

  • What women find sexy in a man

    Ask most men what women find sexy in a man, and the typical answers are "good looks ", "good body", "impressive equipment". But every woman knows there is no connection between how a man looks and how he loves. What women really find sexy in a man is something else entirely, it's about how he moves, how he reacts and and how he interacts with her.

  • Sexual fears of women

    Most men are so caught up in their own fears they don't realize that women have sexual fears too. To give her absolute pleasure you have to know what a woman enjoys most AND fears most about sex. We discuss the 3 basic fears most women have about sex.

  • Seduction : arousing her mind

    Learn the art of seducing a woman's mind by romancing and relaxing her. Unless a woman is first aroused mentally, it's almost impossible for her to get physcially aroused.

  • Foreplay : arousing her body

    Do you know her hotspots from head to toe? We will show you a woman's 18 erogenous zones using a life-size dummy and teach you delightful ways to awaken them using fingers, tongue, lips, teeth, breath, penis and more.

  • The art of touching

    Knowing how and where to touch her is key to mastering the ability to arouse a woman to heights of pleasure. We will show you delightful ways to touch a woman.

  • The art of kissing

    If you kiss a woman well, and kiss her the way she wants to be kissed, you are halfway to your destination of having her melt in your arms. We point out the most common mistakes men make while kissing a woman, and we teach you 3 sensuous kissing techniques (we make attendees practice it on the back of their palm until they get it). Plus, lots of tips and tricks that make it more pleasurable for both of you.

  • Finger sex

    Tips and tricks to give a woman amazing pleasure between her legs using just your fingers. Also : common mistakes men make while using their fingers (which could turn her off, or even hurt her).

  • The 3 kinds of female orgasms

    How to give your partner 3 kinds of orgasms : clitoral, vaginal (or G-spot) and cervical

  • The art of oral sex

    Delicious ways to use your tongue, lips, and fingers in, on and around a woman's vulva. Also, misconceptions about oral sex cleared.

  • Sex positions

    We discuss the 6 basic positions for sexual intercourse and the advantages of each. Also, thrusting techniques that enhance her pleasure.

  • Afterplay

    A lot of men just roll over and fall asleep after sex or show rushed behaviour like getting dressed or using the phone. It takes just a few minutes to express the loving, tender reassurance that all women need after sex.

  • Longer lasting erections

    Involuntary ejaculation is the number-one sex problem affecting young men. We discuss the common causes of premature ejaculation and practical exercises that helps improve your ejaculatory control.

  • Making love to a virgin

    As the first man to make love to her, you can put her on the road to a fulfilling sex life or you can fill her head with all kinds of sexual anxieties. The suggestions in this section could help maximize pleasure for both of you.

  • What women hate

    10 things you should definetely avoid doing if you don't want to turn-off a woman during sex.

  • Sexuality myths & facts

    Common myths related to sex and the facts that demolish them.

  • What the law states

    Overview of what sexual acts are illegal as per the Indian penal code.

  • Safer sex:

    The risks of unprotected sex. Common sexually transmitted diseases, their symptoms and treatment.

  • Start to finish

    A suggested sequence of techniques to make love to a woman from start to finish, from undressing her right upto afterplay. Like a step-by-step dummies' guide. You can use this sequence exactly as it is, or you can add your own touches to it.

What will I NOT find at the workshop?
  • The workshop is NOT meant to treat any physical condition that you may have; for that it is best to consult your physician
  • There will be NO nudity and NO live models
  • There will NOT be any kind of sexual touching, stimulation or titillation
  • There will NOT be any kind of pornographic videos or photographs displayed
What can your workshop teach me about sex that a sex manual cannot?

A book can be a good learning tool. But the INTERACTIVITY of the workshop cannot be matched by any other medium of learning.

At the workshop you will touch and feel a realistic life-size vulva, made of a fleshy skin-like material. You will learn ways to touch its various parts in ways that give a woman maximum pleasure.

Workshop attendees are surprised to learn how delicately women expect to be touched, especially the vulva and the clitoris. Quite different from the rough manner in which men handle their penises.

Attendees also learn to KISS by kissing the back of their own hand, while the instructor supervises and corrects their technique.

Techniques are taught in an interactive manner...until attendees GET IT and demonstrate to the seminar conductor that they get it. Every attendee leaves the seminar, not just with the theory but with the actual competence of DOING it right.

Note: Only dummy replicas are used at the workshop. NO LIVE MODELS.

Why can't I get the same information from a porn video?

Most male pornography is NOT a good teacher of how to sexually satisfy women.

  1. Porn is primarily created for visual stimulation of male viewes, and therefore largely feature genital-based lovemaking (what men like to see), not the whole-body love making (that women prefer).
  2. The female actors in the movie are paid to scream in delight even if they are not enjoying it. This makes male viewers expect the same unrealistic responses from their partners in real life, and are disappointed when they don't get them.
  3. Most porn is targeted only towards men, therefore a woman's needs and expectations are not taken into account.

Ever see a woman in a porn video have an orgasm? Almost never.Despite the super-sized penises of the men, we only see women moan and moan but never orgasm. Why not? Because great love making does not need a big, hard penis. The workshop will explain how any man can learn to sexually satisfy women the way they prefer.

My partner can tell me what she likes in bed...why do I need a workshop?

If you have a partner who is comfortable enough to tell you, and perhaps even show you what pleases her during sex, you're a lucky man. But many women will not say it.

Women WANT men to know what pleases them sexually but usually hesitate to tell them in a direct way. Here are some reasons why... Why women hesitate to say what they like during sex

How many people attend each seminar?

Only 20 attendees are accepted for each workshop to maintain an informal and personal atmosphere that encourages frank discussion.