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There is one big difference I see between guys who
easily learn how to approach women and guys who
find it tough.
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The guys who find it easy, don’t give a damn about
whether they get the girl. They are in it for the adventure,
the gamesmanship.
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But the guys who find it tough to approach, usually care too
much about the outcome, they worry too much about whether
or not they will get the girl.
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When you care too much about the outcome, when you are
too concerned about what will happen, you’re unable to relax,
you stop having fun, and you send out a needy vibe. Girls can
feel this vibe, and it makes them run!
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On the other hand, when you don’t care if you get the girl,
and you put out a I’m-just-having-fun-I-don’t-care -what-happens
attitude, you put out a non-needy vibe, which is attractive,
and girls feel drawn to you.
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The Bhagavad Gita says the same thing
Remember the principal character from the Bhagavad Gita?
The cool dude who advocated outcome-independence? Who
exhorted Arjuna to do the work without being attached to the
fruits of his actions?
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He was not too bad with the chicks, was he? 
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