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A simple way to approach any girl

Hey, what are you doing in front of that computer?

It’s such great weather, you should be out meeting girls. 🙂

Let me help you get started with a simple way to approach any girl.

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A simple way to approach any girl

Walk up to her (or the group) and say casually (as if you just happened to see her),

You : “Hey, I have to ask you a question. Very important.”

Whatever her response, continue…

You : “My friend and I are discussing something and we can’t agree.
So quick question, and I have to get back to  my friend”

Whatever her response, continue…

You : “What do women really prefer…nice guys or bad boys?”

Whatever her response, continue…

You : “The reason I am asking is, my cousin just called to say that she
has dumped her boyfriend because he is TOO NICE. This is a guy who calls
her often, sends flowers to her office, but she says, she wants someone who is
more of a bad boy. Is that normal? I thought girls liked nice guys.”

She : Blah, blah…

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If she suggests that she prefers bad boys, say with a smile

You : “Hmmm, so you are the bad girl and you (pointing to her friend) are the good girl”

Girls : “laugh, blah, blah…”

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If she says she prefers nice guys, say with a smile

You : “Hmmm, so you are the good girl and you (pointing to her friend) are the bad girl”

Girls : “laugh, blah, blah…”

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You (as if you just noticed something) “Are you both good friends?”

Girls : “Yes”

You : “I could tell. Because you both make the exact same facial expressions”

Girls : “laugh, blah, blah…”

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You : “Hey, I wish I had the time to talk to you. But I have to go.”

(High-five them both, one by one, and turn to leave)

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Turn back around and say,

You : “Hey listen! You girls seem cool.  Let me grab your number and I’ll
give you a call. If we get along on the phone we could hang out some time.”

Take out your phone and look at her as if waiting for her number. Punch in her
number, wait for her phone to ring, and say with a smile,

You :  “Now don’t call me 50 times a day. I’ll call you”

And leave.

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If she is alone (without a friend), use the modification below…

You : “The reason I am asking is, my cousin just called to say that she
has dumped her boyfriend because he is TOO NICE. And she says, she’s now
looking for a bad boy. Is that normal? I thought girls liked nice guys.”

She : Blah, blah…

You (as if you just noticed something): “Hey, you look like a teacher. You just
have that…vibe about you. Are you a teacher?”

She : “laughs, blah, blah…”

You : “Hey, I wish I had the time to talk to you. But I have to go.”

(High-five her, and turn to leave)

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Turn back around and say,

You :  “Hey listen! You seem like a cool girl.  Let me grab your number and I’ll
give you a call. If we get along on the phone we, could hang out some time.”

Take out your phone and look at her as if waiting for her number. Punch in her
number, wait for her phone to ring, and say with a smile,

You :  “Now don’t call me 50 times a day. I’ll call you”

And leave.

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This is the simplest form of approaching, and any guy can do this.
Tell me how your approaches turn out by writing to shiva[at]realman.in

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Key points :

  1. When you first approach, talk over your shoulder. Gradually, as she gives
    you her attention, face her (or the group) directly.
  2. Smile 🙂
  3. Speak loudly and c-l-e-a-r-l-y
  4. Wear at least one item that makes you stand out from the rest of the guys
  5. Your success does not depend on whether she gives you her number. Your success
    depends on whether you approach. If you approach (regardless of
    the outcome),
    you have succeeded.