After they get into a stable relationship, many men take it easy.
They start dressing sloppy, they go easy on their grooming and
they ignore their fitness.
In short, they stop being attractive to other women.
They may even think of it as a virtue. Some say,
“Arre, I am done with attracting women. Now I want to
stay faithful to my wife.”
He doesn’t want to make his partner feel insecure, he thinks.
What he doesn’t realize is, it’s a good thing if she is a little insecure.
Don’t believe me? Ask Priyanka Chopra.
Here’s a recent episode of Koffee with Karan.
Priyanka Chopra and Deepika Padukone.
The topic is about the man they want to finally settle
down with in a “stable relationship”.
Karan Johar: “So you’re looking for a stable home,
a man you’re not insecure about…”
Priyanka : “No, no, I want to be insecure about my man.
If I am not insecure about him, I would not want him.”
Watch at 16 min : 34 secs
Staying faithful to your partner is a good thing (affairs are not cool).
But, beware, don’t let her feel too secure.
As soon as your wife is sure that other women are no longer
attracted to you, she loses attraction for you herself!
Worse, her natural female wiring now starts looking for a man
who is more attractive than you.
Yes, she may now have an affair.
She may not actively go seeking an affair, but she will now be
more open to it than before.
Bottomline : The only way to be ‘happily’ married is to keep your
wife a little insecure, by continuing to be the real man that other
women find attractive.
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