When you’re ready to start escalating physical contact you have to start touching
her. But you have to do it in a way that does not make her uncomfortable.
Here’s an idea to touch her earlobes (an erogenous zone) without appearing creepy.
Look at her ear-rings, and say,
“Hmmm, cool ear-rings, where did you get them…Jaipur?
My cousin got the exact same pair from there.”
As you’re talking, reach out and feel her ear-rings, and at the same time
fondle her ear lobes, casually, as if they just happened to come in the way.
And this is KEY :
Take away your hand BEFORE she has a chance to object.
Your hand should be there for just a few seconds.
Then change the topic of conversation to something else.
This will get her thinking, “Wait a minute, he just touched my intimate zone,
and I didn’t feel creepy! This guy is different!”
Touching her again later is much easier now.
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Keep this in mind:
- Don’t act like it’s a big deal, or she’ll find it a big deal too. Act casually like you’d look at a male-friend’s shirt and then peek at the label behind his neck to see what brand it is.
- Don’t keep your hand there for more than a few seconds. You have to remove it before she feels uncomfortable (and she will, if you keep it there for more than a few seconds)