The paradox of attraction

 

When you stop kissing up to women, and start teasing them without

worrying about whether they like you, you will OFTEN hear things

like “you’re so mean” and “stop it!” etc.

 

They get upset and usually don’t know the reason why.

 

The reason they get upset is that they cannot CONTROL the situation.

 

The result is a paradox. They are feeling attraction for you while

they’re saying things like “you’re so mean”.