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Question : I see her going to tuition daily, how do I approach her?

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Hey buddy…i have a question regarding a girl whom i like…i have a attraction to that girl. i want that girl in my life. she is a very beautiful girl goes to her tuition everyday. i just see that girl everyday while going to tuition only.. plzz tell me what should i do to attract her because she doesnt know me at all. i regularly see her while going to tuition only..i thought that i ll stop her in the road and talk to her …but i have read your many articles in which you told that its not good to stop a girl in the road bcoz it feels creepy. So i m asking you plzz help me to attract her towards me. she has no attraction towards me. but i still want to create it so plzz help…..
– S, Patiala

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Approaching on the road feels creepy to a woman only if you’ve
been lying in wait for her like a cheetah waiting to pounce on an
unsuspecting gazelle.

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Guys will wait (outside a girl’s college, office, house) and then
just as she steps outside….*Bam!*…they approach. Creeepy!!!!!!!

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Women are quite intuitive. They can sense when an approach
has been planned in advance. They find it a turn-off.

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What women prefer is spontaneity.

They prefer it when an approach just happens…naturally!

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Even if your approach is pre-planned, you have to make it look natural.

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Follow the below tips to make your approach look natural and
improve the chances of her wanting to talk to you.

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Avoid doing these things when you approach

  • Staring at her from a distance before approaching her
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  • Waiting for her by a wayside store and then approaching
    her just as she passes
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  • Approaching her frontally (face to face)
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  • Appearing too serious and stiff, as if this is a big deal for you
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  • Treating her like she is a celebrity and you are her fan
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  • Asking boring interview style questions like, what’s your name
    where do you live, which college etc.
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  • Giving compliments early or letting her know you like her,
    without making her work for it.
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  • Displaying low-value with nervous fidgeting or a meek voice
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  • Being clingy. Sticking to her and not letting her go.

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Do this when you approach

  • She should see you having fun before you approach.  Be laughing
    with your friend,  or (if you’re alone) laugh into your cellphone
    as if you’re having a fun conversation.
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  • Smile as you approach
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  • Open over your shoulder (not face-to-face)
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  • Have an open, confident body language and a bold voice
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  • Have a conversation starter that engages her emotional
    mind, not one that makes her think logically.
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  • Let her know that you can’t stay for long. Say something like
    “Quick question, and then I have to go”
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It takes a lot of effort to appear effortless. But once you understand the key
principles, you can then make it part of your natural style, without effort.

That’s what we teach guys at the Real Man Academy.

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