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The Art of Approaching

How to approach and talk to women
in a way that triggers attraction.

 


 
 
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What you will learn (click on to expand)


Understanding female psychology

ANY man can attract women, if he only understands the process of ATTRACTION
(even if he is not rich, young or goodlooking).

If you do not know how to make a woman feel that deep physical and emotional response
called ATTRACTION, then no matter what you do, women will probably always leave you
for the rest of your life.

The process that creates ATTRACTION inside a woman is mysterious and seemingly illogical.
Until you understand the process, it just won't make ANY sense.

It took me literally YEARS to attract the women I want AND be able to explain how to do it.




  

Why men fear approaching women

The truth is that most guys feel an intense, uncontrollable FEAR when they
even THINK about approaching a woman.

I personally think that this fear combined with the helplessness of not being
able to control it can really effect a guy's self image and self esteem.

And when this continues for years and years, eventually it can lead to serious
emotional and social problems.

We will examine the REAL reasons why men feel the fear of approaching
a woman and how to handle it.





  

How to walk and talk like an attractive man

It's not your body she is attracted to, but HOW you hold and carry it.

It's not your voice she's attracted to but HOW you use it.

You don't have to be good-looking, you just have to LOOK GOOD.

We will teach you specific body language and voice tips to help you
instantly improve your attractiveness.

BODY-LANGUAGE EXERCISE
At the workshop, you will do a body language exercise that INSTANTLY fixes the weaknesses in the way you stand, sit, walk and make eye contact. The effect is instant. On your way home from the seminar, you will notice women looking at you with more interest. It's amazing how just a few minor modifications to the way you carry yourself can transform the way the world sees you.

 

 

 







  

How to approach women (interactive demos)

What is the most basic thing you have to do to meet a girl? APPROACH!

Unless you approach a woman, you will never get to know her, date her or have
sex with her. The skill of approaching a woman is the MOST IMPORTANT skill
any man must learn if he wishes to have choice of women in his life.

We will look at the step-by-step techniques, with a live demonstration, that will
teach you the exact way to approach a woman.

  • What openers to use when you approach a woman (I will share with you my
    formula
    for creating openers; use it to create unlimited openers of your own)
     
  • The 5 most common mistakes men make while approaching that destroys
    all chances of attracting the woman.


  • The 3 basic ingredients of a successful approach.
     
  • The 2 ways to approach a woman : DIRECT and INDIRECT
    (In Direct, you make it clear from the start that you are interested in her sexually. In Indirect
    you engage her in an emotionally rich interaction and escalate gradually)

  • A simple (but powerful) mindset to adopt when you're scared to approach.
    It dramatically reduces your anxiety and makes it easier to approach.

  • A simple exercise that you can do everyday that helps your approaching skills.

LIVE APPROACHING DEMO I will provide you with demos of approaching a woman walking on the street, seated at a coffee shop, and browsing in a book store. Try your approaching skills on our pretty assistants, while I give you frank feedback to improve your approaching technique.

Approaching a moving target
Approaching a seated target
Approaching a target while
she's browsing or shopping

 

 





  

How to talk to women

Most men talk to women as if SHE is the prize that he has to pursue.
They feel that they have to say and do things to impress her or to win her over.

Bad idea.

Women are turned on by men who ARE the prize themselves.

You have to demonstrate right from the start that YOU are the prize.

And the quickest way to communicate this is with confidence and humor.

I will share with you some basic techniques on how to talk to women in a way that makes
HER chase you and try to win you over.

 





  

Getting her phone number

I can remember, when I first started learning this stuff... I thought no woman
in her right mind would just give out her phone number to a complete stranger...
but then I realized that no woman IS in her right mind when she is attracted.

If a woman likes you, then she's VERY likely to give you her phone number
even if she has just met you. I will share with you specific techniques to get her
number, smooth and easy.

 





  

How to take things 'forward' on the phone

More important than GETTING the phone number is knowing WHAT TO DO
with it. Having a phone number is useless if you don't know how to use it to set up a date.

Ok, so you've got her on the phone. Do not ask her if she is busy. Do not ask her
what she is doing. Do not remind her where she met you. That's what most guys do.

There are things you can say (or sms) on the phone that improve your chances of taking
things forward to a more intimate level, or they can wipe out all the success you have built so far.

I will provide tips on how to talk (or sms) on the phone that will help you take things forward.

4 PHONE MISTAKES
4 common mistakes men do on the phone, that make her instantly lose attraction for you. Just AVOIDING these mistakes will shoot up your success rate.

POWERFUL PRACTICE TIP :
I will give you a powerful exercise to practice your phone game. You can use it to practice talking to women from the comfort of your home or office. And you don't even have to call these women...THEY will call you!

 

 

 

 





  

Key mistakes to avoid on the first 'date'

You got her attracted and built enough comfort for her to actually meet you again.
Now don't blow it.

The truth is, if a woman comes to meet you a second time... she WANTS you to seduce her.
She WANTS you to take the lead and increase the intimacy. She WANTS you to sweep her
off her feet!

But what do most men do?

They play it SAFE, they talk about BORING things, they SPEND a lot of money to compensate
for the excitement.

Result? She loses the attraction.

We will discuss ideas for keeping things unpredictable and spontaneous...the two qualities
women are most attracted to.

We will also discuss conversation topics that keep the energy up, and how to avoid topics that are boring.

And I'll give you an amazing tool that you can use when you run out of conversation topics,
that will keep the attraction moving forward.

4 CRITICAL DATING TIPS
I will share with you 4 valuable tips to keep in mind for your first date. Just do these things and you will make a lot of women (and yourself) very happy.

 




  

How to get physical smoothly

Once a woman is attracted to you, she expects you to escalate things sexually.
If you don't, you will either get dumped in the FRIEND zone or she'll lose all interest in you.

Of course, there is a RIGHT way to escalate sexually (which she enjoys) and there is a WRONG
way (which creeps her out).

We will discuss ways to sexually escalate that make her want more.

KISSING TIP
I will share with you simple techniques that will help you move smoothly from normal conversation to kissing her, without making things awkward or embarassing her.

 




  

Sex coaching by a certified sex educator

Basic techniques to sexually satisfy a woman in bed
Sexual fears of women
Most men are so caught up in their own fears they don't realize that women have sexual fears too.
To give her absolute pleasure you have to know what a woman enjoys most AND fears most about sex. We discuss the 3 basic fears most women have about sex.

   
Seduction : arousing her mind
Learn the art of seducing a woman's mind by romancing and relaxing her. Unless a woman is first aroused mentally, it's almost impossible for her to get physically aroused.

 
Foreplay : arousing her body
Do you know her hotspots from head to toe? We will show you a woman's 18 erogenous zones using a life-size dummy and teach you delightful ways to awaken them using fingers, tongue, lips, teeth, breath, penis and more.

 
The art of kissing
If you kiss a woman well, and kiss her the way she wants to be kissed, you are halfway to your destination of having her melt in your arms. We point out the most common mistakes men make while kissing a woman, and we teach you 3 sensuous kissing techniques (we make attendees practice it on the back of their palm until they get it). Plus, lots of tips and tricks that make it more pleasurable for both of you.

 
The art of oral sex
Delicious ways to use your tongue, lips, and fingers in, on and around a woman's vulva.
Also, misconceptions about oral sex cleared.

 
Sex positions
We discuss the 6 basic positions for sexual intercourse and the advantages of each.
Also, thrusting techniques that enhance her pleasure.

 
Making love to a virgin
As the first man to make love to her, you can put her on the road to a fulfilling sex life or you
can fill her head with all kinds of sexual anxieties. The suggestions in this section could help
maximize pleasure for both of you.

   
What women hate
10 things you should definetely avoid doing if you don't want to turn-off a woman during sex.

 


 



 
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Frequently Asked Questions

How will learning to approach women help a man?

This is the most important skill any man must learn if he wishes to
reach his dating potential and have choice of women in his life.

Unless you approach a woman, you will never get to know her,
date her or have sex with her.

But this is not just about women.

The anxiety you feel when you approach a woman is part of a larger
issue called SOCIAL anxiety.

Every one of us has some level of social anxiety, but the HIGHEST form
of it manifests when you approach women.

By learning to approach women, you tackle the most intense form of social anxiety.

To approach and connect with women successfully, you have to bring out your
own best personality. You have to make deep level changes to yourself. You have to
become more confident, you have to look good, you have to develop the ability to take
quick decisions, you need masculine body language and a relaxed & confident voice tone.

This will help you with more than just women.

Besides improving your dating life, these skills will make you more confident and outgoing
at social gatherings and parties. Your relationships with your friends and families will improve.
You will build stronger bonds with your colleagues at work. You will evolve into a bold,
attractive man who approaches life with a whole new perspective.

Earlier you might be insecure and self-conscious, but once you get this skill handled,
you will radiate as you walk down the street.





  

What if the woman I approach is married or not single?

That is one of the reasons why you need the skills of approaching. If she happens to be married or
not available or not interested, you can disengage and walk away pleasantly, without any drama,
without feeling rejected. But unless you approach her, you will NEVER KNOW.




  

What if I already have a girlfriend or a wife?

Having the skill of approaching women and flirting with them makes a man much more attractive even
to his OWN girlfriend or wife.

Flirting with other girls while you’re in a relationship helps you preserve your fun and flirty
persona so you’re like that around your girlfriend or wife.

Even if you never approach another woman, just possessing this skill makes you radiate a flirtatious
charm that your partner will love. In fact, the reason many relationships lack zing is because the man
does not have the skill of flirting.

 




  

Date, venue, time, price?

  Mumbai Bangalore
Date :
20 December, 2009 27 December, 2009
Venue :
Centrally located seminar hall
(details provided to registered attendees)
Centrally located seminar hall
(details provided to registered attendees)
Time :
10 am to 5 pm 10 am to 5 pm
Fee :
Rs.4,800/-
Includes lunch, tea/coffee, snacks
Rs.4,800
Includes lunch, tea/coffee, snacks



  

Will there be women at the workshop?

We will have cute female workshop hostesses on whom you will practice approaching and talking.
You will get frank feedback (from the girls and from Shiva) to help you improve your approaching technique.



  

What is better for me, a Bootcamp or a Workshop?

Bootcamp is better if you want the experience of approaching real women in the real world.
You may get rejected several times, so some guys find it scary, intense and stressful. But it's a
powerful learning experience and teaches you the skill at a deep level. It's a little more expensive
than a workshop.

Workshop is better if you want to learn approaching techniques on beautiful women in a seminar
hall. You can keep practicing till you get the technique right, without any fear of rejection. You also
get honest feedback from the girls directly (and from Shiva). The workshop also provides information
on how to take things forward on the phone, during a date, and how to take things forward sexually.
The sex coaching segment is more detailed in the workshop.

If you take a bootcamp AFTER taking the workshop, you get 25% off the bootcamp price.

Click here for Bootcamp details




  

How do I sign up?

Click here to pay and sign up. As soon as your payment is received, our representative will
contact you with details of the venue. To pay by bank deposit (cheque or cash), click here.



  


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