The 5 steps of mating
There is a sequence of 5 steps that two strangers have to go through,
to move from eye contact to sex.
(Shown above are the 5 steps; mouse-over to pause)
It doesn't matter if you follow these steps consciously or naturally.
It doesn't matter if you show a woman this article and she thinks it's a
load of crap. :)
All that evolution/nature cares about is that these 5 steps be followed in
the exact sequence.
Here are the 5 steps.
Step 1 : Approach
Approach and break the ice. You can open with a simple "Hi".
Or you can minimize chances of rejection by using routines.
Step 2 : Show that you are a cool guy
Become so interesting that she stops thinking “Why is he talking
to me?” and thinks “I hope he doesn’t stop talking to me!”
Step 3 : Disqualify her
Show active disinterest in her and talk to the rest of her friends,
until she provides a reason for you to be attracted to her.
Step 4 : Isolate & Connect
After she provides you with a reason to reward her with your interest,
isolate her and develop an emotional connection by finding things in
common, and making her feel that this was meant to happen.
Step 5 : Seduce
Physically advance in a way that doesn’t make her uncomfortable,
until you have sex with her. |