There is no failure, just lessons

When you approach a woman, if things don’t work out the way you expected,
think about what you did, or did not do, that caused it.

  • Did you communicate desperation for her through your
    words or actions?
  • Was your body language open & confident, or closed & withdrawn?
  • Were you speaking too softly? (speaking softly creeps women out;
    always be loud and clear)
  • Were you speaking too rapidly with no pauses, like nervous guys do?
  • Were you talking about logical stuff (like typical guys do) or were you
    engaging her emotionally?
  • Were you standing too close? Too far away?

You may be tempted to blame the woman for an approach going wrong,
by saying that she was being a bitch etc.

But if you think about it, you’ll find the reason is almost always YOU, not her.

LOOK for the lesson, learn from it, and move on to the next girl.