Question : “I am a handsome guy, why don’t girls approach me?”

Question from reader :

Hey, I m a good looking guy planning to be a model. My main problem is I have too much ego problem. According to me girls should approach me first because I m so good looking. At the same time I am nervous to approach girls. Every girl I talk to puts me in the  friend zone . They say “I love u as a friend”. I feel like banging my head on a wall..I m literally pissed off and frustrated.

– P.K., Saharanpur

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***My response***

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Understand this important difference between men and women.

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Men are attracted to looks. Women are attracted to confidence.

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When a man sees beautiful breasts, he is attracted and ready to
have sex with the owner of the breasts. But when a woman sees
a man with a great body, she is NOT attracted, just intrigued.
Only after she hears him talk and sees him move with confidence,
can she decide if she is attracted.

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Why is that?

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Why do women give more importance to confidence than good looks?

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I’ll explain. Listen carefully.

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For thousands of years we lived in the jungle. Our deepest instincts
are still shaped by our life in the jungle. When a woman gets pregnant in
the jungle, she needs her man to go out, hunt and bring food for her
and her baby. She needs a man who will protect her from enemy tribes and
wild animals. She needs a man who has the strength to build a house for
her protection. In short, she needs a confident and strong man.

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In the jungle, a good looking man who is unable to hunt for food is useless.
His woman and baby will starve to death. Even if he has six-pack abs, but
no courage to fight enemies and wild animals, she and her baby could
get killed. Even if he looks cute but is unable to build a house for her and her
baby, they could get killed by exposure to sun and rain.

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That’s why women feel no attraction for handsome hunks who will stare
from a distance but have no courage to approach.

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That’s why women are attracted to men who may be short, fat and ugly
but have the courage to approach and talk to them.

Because in the jungle, courage in a partner is more useful for her survival
than good looks.

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The girls you talk to see you as a friend and not as a lover. But you have not
mentioned what do you talk to them about, what are the things you say?
Remember, when you send me a question, provide as much information as
possible. My guess is you’re relying on your good looks to create attraction.
That doesn’t work with women. A man has to actively flip a woman’s attraction
switches to make her see him as a lover.

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