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This is from a real conversation that happened a couple of days back.
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Girl : “Is saal main Ganapati ghar laa rahi hoon”
Translation : This year I’m bringing home a Ganapati
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Most guys will respond to that with some thing like this…
“How many days are you keeping it? Blah, blah…” Or…
“Wow, you’re lucky, you’ll get lots of blessings, blah, blah…” Or…
“When are you inviting me for the darshan? blah, blah…” etc…
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But the man who understands attraction will respond with
something like this…
“Of course, aap ne itne paap kiye hain, aap ko toh Ganapati
lana hi padega” (Translation : Of course, you are such a sinner,
you have no choice but to get Ganapati home)
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If the girl responds with mock shock, and denies being a sinner, some men
will back off and say, “Hee, hee, just kidding, don’t mind it” etc.
But the truly attractive man will amp up the teasing further,
“Balkee ek Ganapati se kuchh nahin hoga. Aap ke paap ka bhandaar
itna bhar gaya hain, kum se kum 15 Ganapati toh lane padengey aap ko”
(Translation: In fact just 1 Ganapati won’t do. Your pot of sin has so
overflowed, you will need to get at least 15 Ganapatis)
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Why this works
Every woman has a good girl and bad girl side to her. But most men
only talk to the good girl side. They put her on a pedestal and treat her
like a goddess. This makes her hesitate to let her guard down and be herself;
she’s afraid she’ll be judged for being naughty. But the man who acknowledges
a woman’s bad girl side in a fun way, makes her feel at ease. She feels relaxed
that you won’t judge her, that you’re OK with her being a bad girl. And what
does that do? It encourages her to bring out even more of her bad girl side
when she is with you. Which I’m sure you won’t mind. 😉
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