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making your payment for any product on the internet
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The Real Man Academy is India's first attraction workshop and is brought to you
by Shiva, the well-known dating and sexuality expert.
To ask Shiva a question directly,
write to shiva@realman.in or
shiva@betterloverseminar.com
Our work has been
featured in leading Indian newspapers and magazines including the
Times of India, Mumbai Mirror, Times Crest and the DNA.
We are continuously
making large investments in technology,
on the web and offline.
Our focus is not short-term profits, but the creation of a pan-India movement of
Real Men in every Indian city, big and small.
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Can I pay by cash or cheque?
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Why don't you reveal the venue of the workshop for each city?
For the privacy of attendees, we reveal the venue ONLY to registered
attendees,
1 week prior to the event in their city.
Date, venue, time, price?
Dates :
Mumbai (Sept
24 & 25)
Venue :
Centrally located seminar hall
(details
provided to registrants)
Time :
10 am to 6 pm
Fee :
Rs.
8,800 /-
Includes lunch, tea/coffee, snacks, course material
This is the most important skill any man must learn if he wishes to
reach his dating potential and have choice of women in his life.
Unless you approach a woman, you will never get to know her,
date her or have sex with her.
But this is not just about women.
The anxiety you feel when you approach a woman is part of a larger
issue called SOCIAL anxiety.
Every one of us has some level of social anxiety, but the HIGHEST form
of it manifests when you approach women.
By learning to approach women, you tackle the most intense form of social anxiety.
To approach and connect with women successfully, you have to bring out your
own best personality. You have to make deep level changes to yourself. You have to
become more confident, you have to look good, you have to develop the ability to take
quick decisions, you need masculine body language and a relaxed & confident voice tone.
Making these changes will help you with more than just women. Besides improving your
dating life, these skills will make you more confident and outgoing at social gatherings and
parties. Your relationships with your friends and families will improve. You will build stronger
bonds with your colleagues at work. You will evolve into a bold, attractive man who
approaches life with a whole new perspective.
Earlier you might be insecure and self-conscious, but once you get this skill handled,
you will radiate as you walk down the street.
What if the woman I approach is married or not single?
That is one of the reasons why you need the skills of approaching. If she happens to be married or
not available or not interested, you can disengage and walk away pleasantly, without any drama,
without feeling rejected. But unless you approach her, you will NEVER KNOW.
What if I already have a girlfriend or a wife?
Having the
skill of approaching women and flirting with them makes a man much more
attractive even to his OWN girlfriend or wife.
Flirting with other girls while you’re in a relationship helps you preserve your fun and flirty
persona so you’re like that even around your girlfriend or wife.
Even if you never actually approach another woman, possessing this skill, just knowing
that you can do it whenever you want,
makes
you radiate a flirtatious
charm that your
partner will love.
In fact, the reason many relationships lack that zing is because
the man
does not possess the skill of flirting.
Will there be women at the workshop?
We will have cute female hostesses at the workshop on whom you will practice approaching and talking.
You will get frank feedback
(from Shiva and from the hostesses) to help you improve your approaching technique.
Our pretty hostesses are experts at rejecting guys at social places. They know what techniques work on
girls and what don't. They'll give you brutally honest feedback on your approaches.They want you to succeed.
Date, venue, time, fee?
Dates :
Mumbai (Sept
24 & 25)
Venue :
Centrally located seminar hall
(details
provided to registrants)
Time :
10 am to 6 pm
Fee :
Rs.
8,800 /-
Includes lunch, tea/coffee, snacks, course material
All kinds of men - businessmen, students, artists, builders, doctors, architects,
CEOs, sportsmen, engineers, even retired senior citizens. They come from various cultural
and professional backgrounds, and in a variety of sizes and shapes - tall, short, bald, hairy.
And they come with just one single purpose - to know more about sex, specifically,
to know how they can better please the women in their lives.
Here are some of the reasons they gave for attending the workshop:
An
engineer from Pune: "I know
there are tricks to make sex more fun for
my wife and me, and
I want to learn as many of them as I can."
A real
estate agent from Mumbai : "I
have a loving wife who never complains,
no matter how selfish
I am in bed. I have been wanting to learn what pleases women,
and I want to do those things for my wife."
A businessman
from Hyderabad : "In my culture
women are not comfortable describing
what they want their men
to do during sex. So if there is some indirect way to get this
information, I would love to have it."
A textile
dealer from Thane : "I am
getting married next month, I don't want to be
ignorant on my
wedding night. I want to know all the right things to do and
then go in
there and do it!"
A consultant
from Kolkata : "As a man
it's easy for me to get my release during sex,
but if there
is some way for me to increase my wife's satisfaction, I would
be grateful for the info."
Do we need sex coaching in the land of the Kama Sutra?
Vatsyayan wrote in the Kama Sutra that Kama
(the art of sensual love-making) was a subject
which required to
be learned,
and could not be left unstudied.
He further affirmed that both
men
and women need to learn this.
There was a time in ancient India,
when along with the great treatises of Yoga, Ayurveda
and Vedanta,
the Kama Sutra was much read and discussed.
Was it the orthodoxy of the mughals that restrained
free discussion about love-making?
Was it the Brahmanical influence
with its strong elements of asceticism that created constraints
and rigidities?
We do not know for sure, but somewhere along the
way we stopped learning how to be great lovers.
What information will you provide at the workshop?
Here's an overview of what the workshop offers :
Safer
sex: The dangers of indiscriminate,
unprotected sex. Common sexually transmitted diseases, their symptoms and
treatment.
Sexual and reproductive anatomy overview
In male:
penis, testicles, prostate and sperm.
In
female: clitoris, vaginal lips, vagina, perineum, cervix, uterus, ovaries and fallopian tubes.
Close-up
view of female genitalia
You will see close-up views of a woman's vulva: the inner and outer
lips, the clitoris, the vaginal opening, the mons pubis and the perineum. Demonstrated up close, in a frank manner using training aids.
Differences
between men and women:Find out how
men and women approach and experience sex differently. Example :
Men
will usually decide based on a woman's looks, women usually decide based
on how she's been treated.
...MORE
EXAMPLES
What women find sexy in a man Ask most men what women find sexy in a man, and the typical answers are "good looks ", "good body", "impressive equipment". But every woman knows there is no connection between how a man looks and how he loves. What women really find sexy in a man is something else entirely, it's about how he moves, how he reacts and and how he interacts with her.
Sexual fears of women Most men are so caught up in their own fears they don't realize that women have sexual fears too. To give her absolute pleasure you have to know what a woman enjoys most AND fears most about sex. We discuss the 3 basic fears most women have about sex.
Seduction : arousing her mind Learn the art of
seducing a woman's mind by romancing and relaxing
her. Unless a woman is first aroused mentally, it's almost impossible for her to get physcially aroused.
Foreplay
: arousing her body
Do you know her hotspots from head to toe? We will show you a woman's
18 erogenous zones using a life-size dummy and teach you delightful
ways to awaken them using fingers, tongue, lips, teeth, breath, penis and more.
The
art of touching Knowing how and where to touch her is key to mastering the ability to arouse a woman to heights of pleasure. We will show you delightful ways to touch a woman.
The
art of kissing If you kiss a woman well, and kiss her the
way she wants to be kissed, you are halfway to your destination of having
her melt in your arms. We point out the most common mistakes men make while kissing a woman, and we teach you 3 sensuous kissing techniques (we make attendees practice it on the back of their palm until they get it). Plus, lots of tips and tricks that make it more pleasurable for both of you.
Finger sex
Tips and tricks to give a woman amazing pleasure between her legs using just your fingers. Also : common mistakes men make while using their fingers (which could turn her off, or even hurt her).
The 3 kinds of female orgasms
How to give your partner 3 kinds of orgasms : clitoral, vaginal (or G-spot) and cervical
The
art of oral sex
Delicious ways to use your tongue, lips, and fingers in, on
and around a woman's vulva. Also,
misconceptions about oral sex cleared.
Sex
positions
We discuss the 6 basic positions for sexual intercourse and the advantages of each. Also, thrusting techniques that enhance her pleasure.
Afterplay A lot of men just roll over and fall asleep after sex or show rushed behaviour like getting dressed or using the phone. It takes just a few minutes to express the loving, tender reassurance that all women need after sex.
Longer
lasting erections Involuntary ejaculation is the number-one sex problem affecting young men. We discuss the common causes of premature ejaculation and practical exercises that helps improve your ejaculatory control.
Making love to a virgin As the first man to make love to her, you can put her on the road to a fulfilling sex life or you can fill her head with all kinds of sexual anxieties. The suggestions in this section could help maximize pleasure for both of you.
What
women hate 10 things you should definetely avoid doing if
you don't want to turn-off a woman during sex.
Sexuality
myths & facts Common myths
related to sex and the facts that demolish them.
What
the law states Overview of what sexual acts are
illegal as per the Indian penal code.
Start
to finish A suggested sequence of techniques to make love to a woman
from start to finish, from undressing her right upto afterplay. Like a step-by-step dummies' guide. You can use this sequence exactly as it is, or you can add your own touches to it.
What will I NOT find at the workshop?
The workshop is NOT meant to treat any physical
condition that you may have;
for that it is best to consult your
physician
There will be NO nudity and NO live models
There will NOT be any kind of sexual touching, stimulation or titillation
There will NOT be any kind of pornographic
videos or photographs displayed
What can your workshop teach me about sex that a sex manual cannot?
A book can be a good learning tool.
But the INTERACTIVITY of the workshop cannot be matched by
any other medium of learning.
At the workshop you will touchand feel a realistic life-size vulva, made of a
fleshy skin-like material.
You will learn ways to touch its various parts in ways that give a
woman maximum pleasure.
Workshop attendees are surprised to learn how delicately women expect to be touched,
especially the vulva and the clitoris. Quite different from the rough manner in which
men handle their penises.
Attendees also learn to KISS by kissing the back of their own hand, while the instructor
supervises and corrects their technique.
Techniques are taught in an interactive manner...until attendees GET IT and demonstrate to
the seminar conductor that they get it. Every attendee leaves the seminar, not just with the theory
but with the actual competence of DOING it right.
NOTE:
Only dummy replicas are used at the workshop. NO LIVE MODELS.
Why can't I get the same information from a porn video?
Most male pornography is not a good teacher of effective sex techniques
because of 3 main reasons:
It has been primarily created for visual stimulation for males, and therefore largely
feature genital-based lovemaking, not the whole-body love making that women prefer.
The female actors in the movie are paid to scream
in delight even if they are not enjoying it.
This makes male viewers
expect the same unrealistic responses from their partners in real
life,
and are disappointed when they don't get them.
Most porn is targeted only towards
men, therefore a woman's needs and expectations are not taken
into account.
My partner can tell me what she likes in bed...why do I need a workshop?
If you have a partner who is comfortable enough to tell you, and perhaps even show you
what pleases her during sex, you're a lucky man.
But many women will not say it.
Women WANT men to know what pleases them sexually
but usually hesitate to tell
them in a direct way.
